With many variations in paddle designs and shapes and additions the possibility to have your paddle just the right way for your particular BDSM style. Here at Grateful pain we have tried to come up with so truly amazing and versatile styles of fetish paddles. As time goes on we will try to include new and exciting items into the bondage supplies range to increase your pleasure.
Below we have tried to cover some of the more common design features on our paddles with both their pro and cons to help you make a more informed decision into which one to purchase first.
Holes in Paddles
There are many theories floating around the internet BDSM community about were holes in paddles originally came from. So even after scouring the internet for many many hours we have still not found a definitive answer to the origins of the holes in paddles. One of the biggest reasons for drilling holes in the blade of a paddle is to give the user less air resistance on the swing. With the paddle having less surface area the pressure is distributed over a smaller area giving more sting. Some people also say that the holes allow the cushion of air to be released from in front of the paddle also increasing the pressure per square inch of the impact.
“less surface area + force = more fun per square inch”
An interesting alternative to the whole debate is is it better to have through holes or “blind holes”. With our knowledge of wood and its strengths and weaknesses drilling a hole through the paddle blade would in fact reduce the weight and increase the speed of travel but would weaken the structure of the blade making it easier to break and split. With a blind hole not penetrating the wood keeping more of the strength intact.
The theory ii found for blind holes is that the skin of the spankee would get pushed into the blind holes creating a small amount of suction making the paddle stick slightly creating a better sensation. Some blind holes can have a small through hole in the center to relieve some pressure.
Blind Holes – Tapered sides
Regular Holes – Straight sides
It is possible to cut the ends of any of our paddles to virtually any shape possible as a standard we only offer square and rounded. Where we can cut the paddles in to elaborate shapes these paddles then become useless as an actual play toy as the ends will become too weak and sharp with the possibility to do a lot of permanent halm to a person. That said there are shapes we will never have thought of so feel free to contact us to discuss any ideas you may have.
The round end paddle is perfect for anyone the rounded shape to the end of the paddle reduces the risk of the corner hitting your partner and breaking the skin. This would be the one we would recommend as a first paddle for anyone entering the wonderful world of BDSM and impact play.
The square end has more of a traditional look and can still be used by anyone the square corners can break the skin if they come into contact with the skin of your submissive or play partner. But the square end will stand far better on a floor keeping it in easy reach of any dominatrix or dominate male. You should never spank and paddle with the edge piece of BDSM equipment.
With our paddles, we tend to make the wider ones shorter in length and the thinner and narrower ones longer. This said there is nothing to say it has to be like that for you. Were a long thin narrow paddle such as our Stinger will give a very sharp stinging bite. The best way to describe the feeling is a burning heat felt on the surface of the skin. Extremely pleasurable but the feeling can be short lived. The thinner the paddle the more lines and marks will be left with to some are worn as badges of honor for days later a reminder of their grateful pain the received.
We have spent many years trying to work out a rule to calculate a length to width ratio but nothing seams to work as different doms use paddles in different ways, as well as the difference between a male and a females build and strength. This can be changed by simple things like if the spanker has a past injury or perhaps they play tennis instead of golfing it all just goes to show that no two people will swing the same.
As a rule, a longer paddle tends to flow through the air slower. The wider paddle will put the force of the swing over a greater area giving the impact a deeper thud a deep penetrating blow, felt deep in the muscle, and less so in the skin
We are always happy to alter lengths of paddles making them longer or shorter to suit your needs the only exception to this is the Stinger we can’t actually make it any longer.
Texture can be added in may way to any object. But a paddle needs to be secure, not sharp in any way and easy to clean and sterilize incase if does puncture the skin. We have used many materials and objects to gain texture on our paddles and increase the pleasure variety of the feelings.
The product we use the most different woods produces different stings and thuds. But as explained in the lengths and width category. So many things can alter and change the type of pleasure felt by the submissive.
Traditionally a timber used in handles as well as the framework in the Morgan sports car. This is due to its fantastic ability to absorb and reduce vibrations. So why to use this for a piece of BDSM equipment let alone a paddle. When used in a paddle yes it soaks up vibrations but this means your fun can last longer and you will get more of the pleasurable deep muscular feelings.
It is also a fantastic timber to look at able to be stained into a variety of colors and finishes to a hick flawless finish.
Traditionally Birching was a form of corporal punishment using a bundle of fresh cut birch twigs as a spanking implement. Where you can’t use birch twigs as a paddle the timber from the trunk to produce some fine close-grained paddles. Taking a traditional material into the next stage.
Hasle, sycamore, yew, laburnum, are among some of the other timbers we use to make both the blades and the handles for our fantastic BDSM paddles as well as all of the other items of BDSM and fetish equipment we produce. Please see our caring for your wooden Fetish and BDSM items guide.
The leather is a wonderfully sensual material quickly warming up to body temperature. Some leather paddles have a core of thin plywood this is to give the material some spring and structure. Others like the ones we make are two pieces of leather sewn together then the handles are wrapped in custom turned wooden handles. These give a great feeling and can be used with either a soft or hard swing. Over time the leather will bed in an take on its own partner and become softer. Please see our leather care guide for how to care for your leather BDSM equipment.
Rubber is a real pain giver so these items are not for the novice BDSM players. Typically 6-13mm thick they can be relatively thick and ungiving. The pain is high and extremely thuddy and deep sensation. Not for the faint hearted. This is one of the few items we make in limited runs.
We have not seen many paddles made from these materials. Being bullet proof you really can give this item some stick able to give thud or a sting. With the limited runs of Kevlar and carbon fiber paddles. We make using the best timbers and hand made resin to create one of a kind paddles.
All of these materials have little to no shock absorbing properties so will land a great sting.
An extremely light weight material with little to no flex will deliver sweet tingly spanks with a loud audible tone. This material like the rubber is not for the faint-hearted but for the serious players. Giving a perfect prolonged play time to your BDSM scene.
We offer wrist or hanging straps as an optional extra on our paddle designs and shapes. Offering this as an extra offers maximum flexibility to you the user. This is a personal thing so whether you like the or hate them there as an option.
We have tried to cover all of the paddle designs and shapes options. As time goes on I’m sure we will develop more ideas and will update this list. If you feel we have some misinformation or you have something to add please feel free to contact us or comment bellow.